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Dear Trevor is a non-time sensitive issue, Questions and Answer resource for young people with questions surrounding being gay, lesbian, bisexual, transgender and questioning. Our primary concern is to address and answer letters from individuals under the age of 24 who have questions regarding their sexual orientation or identity.

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