Featured Letter

Even though my family knows I am bi, they still don't get that it is painful to hear them describe unwanted things as "gay", or calling people that they don't like as "fags".
sneak, 17, CA CA
 Hi Sneak,   It is incredibly hurtful when our loved ones don't support us.  Their non-support can come in many different forms.  It can be outright rejection, refusing to acknowledge who you are as an individual, or using a part of who you are to refer to others in a negative light.  It's hard to imagine the pain you must...
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Ok, here it is. I have a girlfriend and I like this guy too. I’m sexually attracted to guys and just liking girls. I’m confused. I like this guy more than my girlfriend and I don’t know what to do. Is it ok or not? I mean obviously I have felt this way... Charles K., 17, Albany GA
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Why would it matter if I'm here or not? I'm HIV positive, bulimic, and on SSD. I work part-time in a convenience store. My boyfriend does his thing. I've got nothing left to give. Ned M., 40, Pulaski NY
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Dear Trevor, I have been getting asked by a lot of people at my school if I am gay. I tell them no but I know that I don't have any feelings for girls cause I have dated a few this year and she always said she felt something but when I was hanging around... Piano Man, 14, WY
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Dear Trevor, I’m a 14 year old dude and I’m pretty much confused. I recently came out to everyone about sexual orientation (bi). My parents hate me for it but my friends don’t mind. I have a lot of gay and bi friends but here’s the thing, I can’t tell... Ruffusz, 14, New York City NY
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Am I gay because I sucked my best friend's penis? I just wanted to see if I wanted to be gay. I need your help. Kevin, 11, Manhattan NY
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I think I’m in love with my best friend. I just lose myself and love the time I have with her. I have a boyfriend, but it just feels different, like wrong to kiss him sometimes. When I’m with my best friend, it’s totally different. The thing is I know I... Scared and May Be In Love, 14, MD
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Dear Trevor, Hi :) I have been bi for quite some time now BUT when I tried to express this on MySpace my father won’t let me. My mother knows I’m bi. Please help me Jahlonda, 15, Hazleton PA
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Well, I am kind of confused on if I am gay or if I am bisexual or what I am. And every time I tell someone, they seem not to understand. It's so hard to be labeled & I don't even know what the label is myself. People judge me as gay and that's where... Justin, 16, Butner NC
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Dear Trevor, My parents and siblings have been questioning/asking about my sexuality. Although some of my friends know I am gay, my parents do not and I am not ready to tell them. Every time they ask me if I am gay, I deny it because I am just not ready/... Mike, 16, Boston MA
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Dear Trevor, Its been a year since I came out to some of my friends and so far its been fun but I'm scared to tell my family especially my dad because he's not a strong supporter of the whole thing. So what do I do? Blueboy, 16, Somerset NJ
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