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Even though my family knows I am bi, they still don't get that it is painful to hear them describe unwanted things as "gay", or calling people that they don't like as "fags".
sneak, 17, CA CA
 Hi Sneak,   It is incredibly hurtful when our loved ones don't support us.  Their non-support can come in many different forms.  It can be outright rejection, refusing to acknowledge who you are as an individual, or using a part of who you are to refer to others in a negative light.  It's hard to imagine the pain you must...
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I am gay, and I keep quiet, although I told a few male friends about it (I have a very "straight" personality). I believe one of them told someone who is a known enemy of mine, cause I had about 12 different people ask me if I was gay, cause... Scar, 16, Madison KS
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I have a friend who is my age and he is one of my good friends, but he has a couple problems. He is always depressed. He used to cut himself, and he says he doesn’t do that now, but I still worry. He is getting into drink and things like that nature.... Jamie, 17, kansas city KS
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Trevor, My friend (who is a lesbian) is currently in a relationship with another girl. But, I have been infatuated with her for quite a long time. I am wondering if I should still tell her how I feel or just blow it off like it had never even devloped.... Mandie, 16, OH
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Ever since I came out, I have only gone out with 3 people, but only 1 counted, and I have been getting really lonely lately and I think I need some guy attention. Do you have any good ideas on how to find gay or bi dudes in my area? Jordan, 15, Vincennes IN
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Hi trevor i think i might be bi because alot of the time i think of other guys sexually but never in a releationship i dont feel i can talk to anyone about this and i was wondering weather this is normal for guys my age also i never have any suicidal... Reallyconfused, 13, Montclair NJ
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My question is, I like this girl alot, im bi but not ready to come out yet, i have told this girl about how i feel about her, should i ask her out despite all the comments all the kids will say in my school? Cornelia, 16, Buffalo NY
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Dear Trevor, This is Jason and I have a question. This is a common question but I need your help. I’m out to my friends but not my family. If I told my mom she would freak. I had a plan to come out and live with my dad, but he died a week ago in a car... Jason, 16, Vancouver WA
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Dear Trevor, I have recently made a New Year’s resolution that I would come out about me being gay. The problem is that I am afraid of what might happen. I love my life the way it is, and if I come out, I feel that I will not be accepted. I guess my... Travis, 16, Rockmart GA
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I’m Albert. I am 16 and I am bi... I was just wondering if u know a good way to tell my parents that I am bi... Cuz it hurts me to know that I am keeping this from him... Cuz he is my hero and I don’t keep anything from him???? Well, thank u and hope... albert, 16, San Antonio TX
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I feel like running away from home sometimes when my dad pressures me with girls. I’m gay, but even though I’ve told my mom before when I’m mad, she doesn’t seem to accept it. I don’t know what to do? My friends tell me to do what I think is right. Baldemar, 16, Salinas CA
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