Featured Letter

Even though my family knows I am bi, they still don't get that it is painful to hear them describe unwanted things as "gay", or calling people that they don't like as "fags".
sneak, 17, CA CA
 Hi Sneak,   It is incredibly hurtful when our loved ones don't support us.  Their non-support can come in many different forms.  It can be outright rejection, refusing to acknowledge who you are as an individual, or using a part of who you are to refer to others in a negative light.  It's hard to imagine the pain you must...
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Dear Trevor, I recently wrote a letter and I received a spectacular answer. It made me cry a little, to think that someone who didn't know me could write such a caring response. Sadly that response has led me to a new problem. I joined trevorspace in... David, 16, Anaheim CA
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Dear Trevor, I think I am wrong. So wrong I want to take my life. I don't know why it is. It's like I'm lesbian, gay, bi and transgender, and I don't know what to do! I made the mistake of cutting my balls off 3 months ago and now I'm really... kansas lover 101, 22, kansas KS
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  I am returning to school very shortly. Over the summer I have discovered much about my gender and identity. I'm afraid I'll have to come out again to my friends. They know me as bisexual, but I have discovered that I wasn't very comfortable... Jess, 18, Chicago IL
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Hello, thanks for taking the time to listen. Ever since two years ago, I have felt an attraction to other guys. I didn't really notice it until a year ago when I would look at guys way more than girls. Puberty hit me like a train and I really became... Matthew , 14, Jacksonville FL
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Dear Trevor,            How do I figure out what I am? I don't know if Im bisexual or lesbian. I know I like girls. I just dont know if I like guys too. Im really confused. Nathania, 15, Port Orchard WA
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I've read and seen tremendous things on this site! But I also have a question for you! How will I know if I'm gay or straight, by wanting to be with a cute guy or bug a guy, or even talk to a boy I think is hot? I think I know I'm gay but I still have... Tom, 16, Bloomington MN
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Dear Trevor,   I am unsure if this is the place to ask but I have no where else to turn. I Like men, but Gay (man/man, woman/woman) realtionships turn me on more than straight (man/women) realtionships do, it turns me on more than I myself can... Hannah, 14, Longview WA
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I feel like I can't talk to anyone about this...I find that I find guys attractive but I also find girls attractive too and I find myself somewhat obsessing over famous girls and even girls just in my hometown...I feel...confused and I don't know what... Lauren, 14, Springboro OH
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 I feel like I can't talk to anyone about this...I find that I find guys attractive but I also find girls attractive too and I find myself somewhat obsessing over famous girls and even girls just in my hometown...I feel...confused and I don't know... Lauren, 14, Springboro OH
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I have a girlfriend, right now and I love her. Except... I don't, I’m missing this feeling that I only have with guys. We started doing some more sexual things, and I’m not doing too well with it. The feeling that makes me really like it isn't... Chris, 14, ny NY
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