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Even though my family knows I am bi, they still don't get that it is painful to hear them describe unwanted things as "gay", or calling people that they don't like as "fags".
sneak, 17, CA CA
 Hi Sneak,   It is incredibly hurtful when our loved ones don't support us.  Their non-support can come in many different forms.  It can be outright rejection, refusing to acknowledge who you are as an individual, or using a part of who you are to refer to others in a negative light.  It's hard to imagine the pain you must...
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Dear Trevor, It seems like when I’m on the web I like going to gay porn sites. Am I gay? Andy, 17, Pasadena TX
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If I think certain girls are hot, does that mean I'm a lesbian? Shayna, 13, NJ
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Hey, I need help. I have a crush on a guy who I don’t even know. I don’t know if he is bi or straight. I need help. This is really serious I don’t know what to do! Nano, 15, Northampton MA
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Dear Trevor, I do not know if I am gay or bisexual. I feel more sexually attracted to men. I have more sex dreams about them and get more pleasure when I masturbate to them. When I masturbate to woman, I do not get as much pleasure and I do not have many... Leo, 16, CA
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Dear Trevor, I’m soooo lost. Sometimes I’m attracted to guys but a few minutes after, I’m attracted to girls. I’ve been talking to some bisexual and gay guys and they say we can hang out and stuff but the problem is half of me wants to go and another... Boris, 16, silver Spring MD
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Dear Trevor, Ok, here goes. I changed for gym around age 13 or 14 and got sexually excited around guys my age at that time. Every time I changed for gym during that time period that happened. Some people have told me that is a sure sign of me being gay... Curious, 39, PA
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Well I was wondering why I am feeling the feelings I have towards my girl friends? I always feel happy and I just feel too attracted to them. What does that mean? Sierra, 14, TX
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Dear Trevor, How do you know if you’re gay? Rika, 16, Palm Harbor FL
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How do I know if I’m bisexual? Ally, 18, Richmond VA
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Dear Trevor, I’m having a really hard time deciding whether I’m bisexual or not. I love seeing hot girls and boys but I’m scared to even think about this. What do I do? Brittney, 13, Amarillo AL
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