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Even though my family knows I am bi, they still don't get that it is painful to hear them describe unwanted things as "gay", or calling people that they don't like as "fags".
sneak, 17, CACA
Hi Sneak,
It is incredibly hurtful when our loved ones don't support us. Their non-support can come in many different forms. It can be outright rejection, refusing to acknowledge who you are as an individual, or using a part of who you are to refer to others in a negative light. It's hard to imagine the pain you must...
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I have only had actual sexual relations with one girl and I fell in love with her. We have been broken up for two years now and I haven't really moved on. I haven't really had sex with a guy or dated a guy in about a year. I don't know if I'm scared to...Toria, 16, VacavilleCA
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Okay, I don’t know if I’m bi or what but I like boys and I always get the urge to look at other girls. I kissed a few, but does that mean I’m bi?Alex, 13, Texas CityTX
Dear Trevor,
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Hi. I'm very confused right now. I don't know what's going on with me. My classmates think I'm gay because I hang out with girls and somehow I act like I'm gay but I really don't know what I really am. I get attracted to both genders, male and female, but...Ken, 13, AL
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Right now I’m kind of questioning. I’m not suicidal though I have sometimes thought about it but I’m not anymore. It’s against my religion to be homosexual and right now I’m in a hard position. I don’t want to be homosexual. I just want these feelings to...Darren, 13, NJ