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Even though my family knows I am bi, they still don't get that it is painful to hear them describe unwanted things as "gay", or calling people that they don't like as "fags".
sneak, 17, CA CA
 Hi Sneak,   It is incredibly hurtful when our loved ones don't support us.  Their non-support can come in many different forms.  It can be outright rejection, refusing to acknowledge who you are as an individual, or using a part of who you are to refer to others in a negative light.  It's hard to imagine the pain you must...
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What's the age that you would know if you were gay? Please respond by E-mail Tracey, 16, Mississauga AK
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I've been interested in guys for the past couple of years, and I'm trying to turn back straight again. It's very hard, every time I try not to visit an X-rated sited I just go back and do it. I can't stop it. Please help me. Chris, 19, Not in US IN
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I'm afraid that I might be a lesbian, but the weird thing is...I'm not 100% sure. Whenever I see my friend I want to run and hold her in my arms and maybe even kiss her. Does this mean that I am a lez? Or is it just that I care deeply for a friend? Confused, 15, NYC NY
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  Dear Trevor, Whenever I see my frend I get strange feelings which i think are love. Does this mean that I am bi or just that I really care for a friend? Confused lil grl, 15, mpk CA
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