Featured Letter

Even though my family knows I am bi, they still don't get that it is painful to hear them describe unwanted things as "gay", or calling people that they don't like as "fags".
sneak, 17, CA CA
 Hi Sneak,   It is incredibly hurtful when our loved ones don't support us.  Their non-support can come in many different forms.  It can be outright rejection, refusing to acknowledge who you are as an individual, or using a part of who you are to refer to others in a negative light.  It's hard to imagine the pain you must...
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I dont know who I am or what I am anymore all I know is im female but I want to be a man. My youth leaders want me to be straight because its right for god but I dont know how to be what they want me to be. I cut myself when im overwhelmed and im starting... Aiden, 18, austin TX
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Dear Trevor, It's been about 4 four months since I started to question my sexuality. I chalked it up to being bisexual and let it roll from there. But as the months went on, I noticed that my sexual attraction for guys was dropping and was letting my... Niki, 16, Santa Cruz CA
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 Okay. I am biologically female and was raised as a girl. I am now 19 years old. From a very young age I have always taken interest in stereotypical "boy" activities and toys. I never took a dance class, played with make-up or costumes,... Chris, 19, Brooklyn NY
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Hi Trevor, I am Hoang, an asian guy. I have some issues with my sexual orientation that needs the discussion and some of your advices. My parents were broken up when I was 5, then I live with my mom until now. At the early age, in the secondary school, I... Hoang, 18, Houston TX
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Dear Trevor, I am really confused about my sexual orientation. I've been dating a girl for about 7 months now and I'm head over heels in love with her, but I can't picture myself ever being with another girl and I am definitely still attracted to guys.... Kylie, 15, Cincinnati OH
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 Dear Trevor,   For a few years now, I have been watching gay porn on the internet. Been caught a few times. But, honestly i didn't know what to tell them. In my mind I found men very attractive. First off... I just want to say: I am GAY!! But... Jarrett, 14, Birmingham AL
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Hello, so i know i entred my sexual orientation as 'bisexual' but to be honest i am still questioning...i think i still like guys in the way that if i see i guy i'll think "He's hot" or whatever but I am totally attracted to girls. Is it... Kirstie, 17, Carluke SLK
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Hello, so i know i entred my sexual orientation as 'bisexual' but to be honest i am still questioning...i think i still like guys in the way that if i see i guy i'll think "He's hot" or whatever but I am totally attracted to girls. Is it... Kirstie, 17, Carluke SLK
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Dear Trevor, I think I might be bisexual, but my parents are always talking about how disgusting and against the bible it is to be anything other than straight. How do I find out for sure whether I like girls or not, and if I do how could I tell my... Carrie, 15, Hillsboro TX
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For the past 5 years I have identified as bisexual but lately I have been questioning whether or not I identify more as a pansexual because I am attracted to everyone. The thing is I only have Internet definitions of what pansexual is and so I'm not sure... Kelsie, 18, Marysville CA
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