am i gay? becaues i have been wondering?
I don’t know. What has made you wonder?
As you may have read from responses to other letters with the same sort of question, Jake, no one can tell you whether or not you are gay. So, even if you had given me some explanation for why you are wondering, I still wouldn’t be able to tell you. It’s something you will have to decide for yourself, after you have lived a little longer and have a clearer sense of what kind of people you are interested in.
In the meantime, if you would like to talk with someone about this, give our helpline a call.