My dad does accept me a lesbian. he doesnt want me to be a lesbian. everytime i talk to him he tells me stuff like, 'i want you to date a matt not a megan, meaning a boy not a girl. or i want you to marry a guy and when i told him i was dating a girl he made a joke asking if my girlfriend was a mechanic using strap on tools :( it makes me so mad because he told me straight up that he will not accept me as a lesbian i had a kid all last year calling me a dike with no soul because a am a lesbian and a redhead. i have falling in love with this girl who constantly messes with my heart. she is dating this girl who physically and emotional abuses her and i cant stand her. i dont know what to do because of my dad, and this girl. i guess what my question is how do i move on?